Wednesday, August 23, 2017

Michigan Trip 2017

This year we decided to drive to Michigan instead of fly. I know it sounds like a crazy idea with three 4-year-olds and a newborn, but we decided to do this to save money, so that we would have a vehicle that would fit all four car seats while we were in Michigan, and because we knew the kids and I would stay for awhile so it would make the long drive worth it. We have driven many times to Micah's parents' house in Colorado, which is about four hours away, and we've made a few trips to Denver with the kids (about 7 hours), but those drives are nothing compared to the 21 hours of drive time to Michigan. We decided to split the drive up between three days since we had to stop so often to feed Graham. There were definitely tense moments when Graham was crying and we were trying to navigate through city traffic and such, but overall the ride both ways went fairly smoothly and we only had one major slowdown due to an accident ahead of us on the highway. Alexis, Jack, and Faith were troopers for the entire six days we spent in the car, and they spent most of their time watching DVD's.

Micah stayed in Michigan for the first week and then he flew back to ABQ to work for a couple of weeks. He returned to Michigan on Thursday night (actually, he arrived at my parents' house around 2:00 a.m. on Friday morning), and then we left Friday morning around 9:30 for our drive back to ABQ.

Our time in Michigan was a whirlwind of activity. Since Alexis, Jack, and Faith no longer nap we stayed busy morning, noon, and night. And once the big kids were in bed for the night, usually around 8:00 p.m., I was still taking care of Graham as he was not on a good bedtime routine yet and I was worried that if I started to put him to bed too early in Michigan he would be waking up too early when we got back to ABQ since there is a two hour time difference.

I have to admit that although I stayed quite busy taking care of Graham since a 3-month-old demands a lot of time and attention, I did get a little spoiled by my parents. They woke up before the big kids every morning and got them their breakfast. They crawled into the back of the car and buckled their car seats when we were going out (this might not seem like a big deal, but it's kind of annoying climbing back there all of the time). They made every home cooked dinner. They babysat a few times so that Micah and I could do one-on-one outings with the kids and go out with family and friends. I truly appreciated the amount of help (and entertainment, especially by Grandpa) my parents gave me while I was there, and the change of pace was great after an overwhelming start to our summer with a new baby.

It would take several blog posts to cover everything that we did in our time on the road and in Michigan, but here are many photos from our trip that capture the fun that was had by all.

We ended up leaving for Michigan a day later than we had planned as Faith woke up with the stomach bug the day we planned to leave. The next day we made sure everyone was healthy before leaving, so we got a later start than we had originally planned. Thankfully, no one else caught the bug!

Graham stretching out at our lunch stop

Picnic lunch along the highway in Texas

First night in Oklahoma City. The kids have only stayed at hotels a couple of other times, but they don't remember it at all since they were babies. They were so excited to be in a hotel room so they all climbed into the beds right away!

I bought this great travel bed from someone in my multiples club right before we left. My parents have a pack n play so I didn't want to lug ours across the country for four nights in a hotel room. Graham was at the perfect age for this since he wasn't moving around much yet, but as soon as he starts rolling it won't really work anymore.

The girls normally share a room, but sharing a bed was a whole new experience. We ended up having to separate them until they fell asleep and then move them into bed together.

Our preschoolers leaving the hotel

None of the 4-year-olds slept at all until the last 30 minutes of our drive to Michigan, despite being very tired from not much sleep at the hotels. Unfortunately this little nap was rough on Jack, but he recovered quickly once we got out of the car at Grandma and Grandpa's house.

They LOVE driving around in the golf cart

We brought their balance bikes with us and I'm so glad we did! They enjoyed rides around the condo roads and they rode endless circles around my parents' driveway.

We spent our first full day in Holland at Dutch Village

Dutch Village


The kids had numerous ice cream cones on Grandma and Grandpa's back patio

Blueberry picking was a fun experience for all. We were lucky that it was a cloudy morning so that we didn't get too hot, and the blueberries were large and easy to pick! The kids probably ate as many as they put in their buckets.


My parents' have the best yard in the condo neighborhood as they live on a corner lot. The kids spent a lot of time running around the grass and playing games. One of their favorite activities is watching Grandpa launch rocket balloons and trying to catch them. Great Grandma was over this morning and Alexis was playing catch with her, which is something she probably hasn't done in many years!

My parents live in a 55+ community so there aren't usually many kids hanging out there. Many people stopped to talk to the kids while they were playing outside in the driveway and the kids LOVED all of the attention. They especially enjoyed talking to the neighbors, which is a couple in their 80's who have taken an interest in the kids each time we visit.

We spent one morning at Ottawa Beach enjoying Lake Michigan

Jack swimming in the cold lake

Jack warming up with Grandpa and Graham staying out of the sun with Grandma

Not our best family photo due to the bright sun, but in the background is the lighthouse where Micah and I got engaged almost 13 years ago.

Faith enjoying a special drink on the porch swing

Having Katie in town for the summer was a huge bonus for me. We have been friends since 1st grade and we still make a point to travel to see each other a couple of times a year. The kids adore her and they loved that she rode bikes on the driveway with them.

After the kids were in bed for the night, Micah and I met up with Katie and her husband Ryan for drinks (and a second dinner for me...this nursing mama is always hungry!)

Katie's parents have a pool, which I swam in numerous times throughout the years. The kids loved swimming there.

The girls drawing before church

Alexis, Faith, and Jack just sitting on a chair, so I told them to smile for a photo

The girls reading books at the local library, which puts the ABQ libraries to shame. I remember sitting in this same carousel reading as a child.

Exploring the local nature center with cousin Adelle

Faith's first pony ride

Alexis' first pony ride

Jack's first pony ride

Swimming with their cousins (and their cousins' friends)

Adelle, Jack, and Faith

I took this stroller along for Graham, but Faith really enjoyed riding during one of my walk/runs

Downtown Holland splash pad

St. Joe Children's Museum

St. Joe Children's Museum

St. Joe Children's Museum

Alexis' haircut. She was so brave!

Faith's haircut. She was so brave too!

Jack wanted to stay home with Grandpa while the girls got their hair cuts, and when we got back Grandpa had made a guitar and a microphone for him

We borrowed this seat from a relative and Graham thoroughly enjoyed it!

Grandpa found this special tool for making "roads" at a thrift store which saved his back since it had to be re-drawn often due to rain and sprinklers

Painting the birdhouses that Grandpa assembled

Alexis enjoyed riding in the stroller during my run/walk too

Sunday morning porch swing. The kids spent so much time sitting on this. We all wish we had a great porch like this at our house!

Jack playing baseball with Uncle Kyle, Brayden, and Grandpa

All of the great grandkids with my grandma

On the porch swing at my parents' friends' cottage near Lake Michigan

Evening visit to Lake Michigan

Brayden is a mermaid!
First trolley ride in Grand Haven

Alexis and Grandma on the trolley

Sharing a drink in Grand Haven after eating Pronto Pups


More driveway fun with Adelle. I bet the neighborhood misses all of the free entertainment!

We met up with one of my high school friends and two of her kids one morning, and her oldest daughter helped my kids on the zipline

Brayden being very patient with Alexis while playing Sequence for Kids. She still has a lot to learn as far as rules and strategy, but he was good at rolling with it all.

We decided to pick blueberries a second time, but this time it was HOT and the berries were much smaller and more difficult to pick. We still had a good time though.

No blueberry picking session is complete without playing on the playground

We visited Great Grandma at her assisted living center and the kids enjoyed these "toys"

My SIL turned 40 while we were in town, and the kids decided we should get a piñata for her birthday party. Aunt Jodi had bought them a piñata for their 3rd birthday party, which we celebrated in Michigan last year, so I guess they think that is how birthdays are celebrated in Holland! It was actually a lot of fun, especially since our three understood the concept better this year. Jodi is an amazing aunt and a great SIL. It's crazy to think that I have known her since I was 12-years-old since my brother and her started dating in high school (I was in middle school!). It was fun to celebrate this milestone birthday with her!

The grandparents with their six grandkids ages 12, 10, 4x3, and 3 months

On our last full day in Holland we went to story time at the local library and Llama Llama came for a visit! The kids love the Llama Llama books, so it was a lot of fun seeing them meet him!

Uncle Kent and Aunt Emily are also a lot of fun. They stopped by after work on our last day in town to say goodbye, and we were able to get this great picture of them with the kids.



Graham at 4 Months

This past month absolutely flew by since we were gone for 3+ weeks either in Michigan or on the road to / from Michigan. When Alexis, Jack, and Faith were babies I felt like time dragged since I was mostly homebound, it was completely overwhelming to have three babies, and they were slightly delayed so I wasn't seeing much change in them in the early months. This is definitely not the case with Graham since it seems like we are always on the go, one baby is definitely easier than three babies, and I don't think he'll have any delays as he seems on track developmentally right now. I'm nervous that I'm going to blink and miss Graham's whole first year, so I'm trying to enjoy the baby snuggles while he is still little!


Jack, Graham, and Faith (Alexis wasn't in the mood for being in the photo, but these two were very enthusiastic)



Looking at his lion blanket



Age: 4 months

Weight: 12 lbs 14.5 oz ........I think it's time to accept the fact that we have small babies at our house. I was hopeful that Graham would be a chunkster since our other babes were tiny preemies, but he is also small compared to other babies the same age. Graham weighs slightly more than Jack did at 6 months (4 months adjusted) and about what the girls weighed at 7 months (5 months adjusted). 

Length: about 24 inches

Size Clothes: He's growing into 6 month clothes. I just set the last of the 3 month clothes aside to sell at the upcoming New Mexico Parent's of Multiples Garage Sale next month, even though he could technically squeeze into some of them for a few more weeks. I am definitely ready to move all of the baby clothes and gear out of the house as soon as possible after holding on to a lot of it for 4+ years.

Naps: I am working on getting Graham to sleep in his crib during the day. At first it took a lot of effort on my part as I had to go in the room often to comfort him and give him his pacifier, which was difficult since I still have to monitor the other kids too, but now he seems to be understanding the whole "napping in a stationary bed alone" thing. I have been putting him in his sleep sack, giving him his Wubbanub, and singing him a couple of songs, and then leaving when he is still awake. This is what we did with the other kids, and I was always thankful that I didn't have to sit there and rock them to sleep as there is always so much else to do (plus, it makes it easier for babysitters and grandparents to put them to bed too). In the last week he has taken one short 30 minute nap in his crib most days, and these past couple of days he even slept for an entire hour in his crib during one nap. His other naps are either in the Ergo or in the stroller (if he falls asleep in his car seat when we are going somewhere). I'm hopeful we will get into a better nap routine once the kids go back to preschool in a couple of weeks.


First nap in his crib (in his future bedroom / the guest room). Before this I had been putting him in the pack n play in our room to nap.

Night Sleep: Graham is still sleeping in the pack n play next to me in our room. Unfortunately he seems to be going through a sleep regression, or maybe the traveling messed up his sleep a bit, as he went from only waking up once a night to waking up 2-3 times a night to eat. Needless to say, I'm exhausted and I hope that he goes back to waking only once ASAP.

Eating: He is eating every 2-3 hours during the day, plus a couple of times at night, which ends up being about 9 times a day. I have been waking him for a "dream feed" most nights in hopes that he sleeps a little longer, and to give him some extra calories since he is definitely on the light side.

Food Intolerances: Last month I wrote that I thought onions were bothering Graham and, believe it or not, he hasn't had a large spit up / vomit since I cut them out a month ago! I am still not eating dairy, soy, gluten, and avocado (plus beef due to my own aversion). Although it's been a steep learning curve, I have been able to eat fairly normal meals despite not eating all of these things .

Likes: Graham enjoys tummy time since he likes to watch all of the action (me working in the kitchen and the other kids playing) and look at toys, he likes when I sing to him, he enjoys "talking" to us, and he likes silly noises.


Studying his blocks

Talking to Alexis

Smiling at Mommy in the kitchen

At the Curious Kids' Museum in Michigan

Dislikes: Graham dislikes when the big kids get too close to his face or when they do something else that overwhelms him (too loud, etc.). He also hates being in his car seat for too long, especially after spending 6 days in the car during the last month on our drive to and from Michigan.

Milestones: Graham continues to get stronger at tummy time. He often rolls to his side from his back. He did roll over from front to back two times in a row last week, but I think it was a fluke since he hasn't done it again. He can grab objects and he brings them to his mouth. He also enjoys "standing" when placed on his feet.


Chewing on one of the crinkly toys that Grammy made for Alexis, Faith, and Jack

Places he's been: Michigan! And Texas, Oklahoma, Missouri, Illinois, and Indiana on our drive. He was a trooper during the first two days both ways, but by the third day he was done with his car seat and things were a little rough. Micah and I ended up sitting in the back of the car most of the drive home so that we could console Graham and give him his pacifier in hopes of keeping him a little happier. I do think it helped a little. During our Michigan trip Graham went on his first carousel ride, surrey ride, hayride, and trolley ride (the last three were a first for Alexis, Jack, and Faith as well!), but he slept through 99% of it. 


During the looonnnnngggg ride home from Michigan

Ottawa Beach on Lake Michigan

Hayride

Things he does that makes us smile: Babble, scream, laugh (he's just starting to do little laughs), and of course when he smiles at us. He is also rolling onto his side quite frequently, which makes me think he is getting closer to rolling over, and I love to see this kind of progress. We also get excited when he puts his Wubbanub pacifier into his mouth by himself.

Some random photos from the past month...


Looking at Mommy while in the Ergo

Enjoying our picnic at the zoo

Faith asked me to lay him next to her and Lexi and the result was so cute

This was the kids' idea as well while at the Botanic Garden last week

We went to a couple of restaurants in Michigan, and deBoer Bakery was one of them. Usually it is one of the highlights of my trip, but I couldn't get my normal breakfast on my current diet for Graham. There isn't much a mom won't do for a baby!

He is a smiley baby!

While in Michigan Graham was introduced to so many relatives and friends...


Uncle Kyle

Aunt Jodi

Cousin Adelle

Grandma...this is the fourth time they have been together since she has been to ABQ three times since April including his birth and two trips after that!

Cousin Brayden

Aunt Emily

Uncle Kent

"Aunt" Katie (my lifelong friend that just happened to be living in Holland for the summer, which made my trip extra special!)

My mom's lifelong friend Barb who always graciously invites us out to their cottage near Lake Michigan when we are in town